{"id":214,"date":"2020-10-03T14:24:58","date_gmt":"2020-10-03T12:24:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/?p=214"},"modified":"2020-10-03T14:24:58","modified_gmt":"2020-10-03T12:24:58","slug":"i-dont-love-you-anymore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/?p=214","title":{"rendered":"I don&#8217;t love you anymore"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Hey, Boomer saturday here. Well, in Europe I&#8217;m a Boomer, in the US I&#8217;d be a GenX&#8217;er \ud83d\ude42<br><br>So I was thinking about what has been going on over the last 10 or so years &#8212; in terms of people who are good in principle, but let themselves be manipulated into doing bad things. Destroying the remainder of an old scientist&#8217;s life for saying something nice in a slightly awkward way. Misconstruing an author&#8217;s maybe somewhat backwards, but nevertheless well-meaning words into something horrible that was never said. Giving in to demands to remove a respected elderly science and reason advocate from a conference because he shared one borderline tasteless video clip online, causing him a stroke from the undeserved aggravation.<br><br>It&#8217;s called &#8222;cancel culture&#8220; and the list is endless. I&#8217;m not saying criminal offenders shouldn&#8217;t be brought to justice; of course they should. I&#8217;m saying that people are being cancelled, lives destroyed outside of the justice system for having a different opinion, or trying to look at things in a more nuanced way, or simply for being slightly awkward with words; and then the mob decides not to look at the complete picture before participating in a public stoning.<br><br>While thinking about this, for some reason, the line from this old Eurythmics song came to mind this morning:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Now you think that you&#8217;re forgiven, but you can&#8217;t be born again<\/em><br><br>And whoever I noticed doing something like that, and not give an honest apology once they discovered their mistake, I&#8217;m sorry to say that I lost all respect and that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I don&#8217;t love you anymore.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Eurythmics, Annie Lennox, Dave Stewart - Don&#039;t Ask Me Why (Official Video)\" width=\"474\" height=\"356\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rqrw3_604_c?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, Boomer saturday here. Well, in Europe I&#8217;m a Boomer, in the US I&#8217;d be a GenX&#8217;er \ud83d\ude42 So I was thinking about what has been going on over the last 10 or so years &#8212; in terms of people who are good in principle, but let themselves be manipulated into doing bad things. Destroying &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/?p=214\" class=\"more-link\"><span class=\"screen-reader-text\">I don&#8217;t love you anymore<\/span> weiterlesen <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/214"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=214"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/214\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":215,"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/214\/revisions\/215"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.helge.de\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}